Christian Forgiveness does not:
- Say that it doesn’t matter
- Pretend that we have not been hurt
- Simply obeying a command to do so
- Simply “forgive & forget”
- Find an excuse for what has been done
- Gain peace at any price (sometimes involves a conflict)
- Leave it with God (i.e. in a way that avoids personal responsibility)
- Always end in complete reconciliation (between the people involved)
- Come without restitution
- Begin with an understanding of what Christ has done
- Refuse to take revenge (c.f. Romans 12:19)
- Require an act of the will, not just a feeling
- Face reality (it is very often painful, but necessary)
- Accept and forgive ourselves
- Recognise God’s love and His justice go hand in hand
Meg Guillebaud’s book, “After the Locusts” is a story of the genocide that occurred in Rwanda during 1994, and the following years of healing and forgiveness still taking place. Meg goes through the idea of practicing forgiveness and makes a distinction between that and trust and is careful to not fall into the trite and false idea of what it really entails for each of us.
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